pro-divorce

yet another "response" post to the one prior.

one thing most people don't know about me is that i am pro-divorce. i have no problem with people that get divorced. there are so many reasons people think divorce is bad...

-God will be mad at you
-you made a commitment to that person
-the bible and/or God is against divorce
-you should try to work it out for your own sake
-you should try to work it out for your children's sake

that's all stupid. you know what, everybody makes mistakes. they make mistakes, they are forgiven, and they move on. what happens if your wedding was a mistake? why can't you get out of it, be forgiven and move on? are you really expected to just live with that person, even if you hate each other, for the rest of your life just because you're afraid of the D-word? or what people will think of you? or because you'll be another statistic? i say GET OVER IT. if kevin and i ever got to a place in our marriage that we were no longer in love with each other, i would not hesitate getting a divorce. life is too short to not be happy. even though you made a commitment to that person, you first and foremost should have a commitment to yourself--that you will do what you need to do to be happy, to be loved, to love someone else, to take care of yourself, to survive. and that other person should be in full support of your happiness, whatever price that may be to them. if you don't agree, i don't care. i'm in full support of everyone living their lives according to their own rules. no strings attached.